After 25 years of working as an elementary school library clerk for Paramus Public Schools, my mom is finally retiring. Yippee!!! I was asked to speak at her retirement party this afternoon.
My mom is the nicest person I know. And I think everyone in this room would agree that my mom is one of the nicest people they know. I don’t mean nice like, “yeah she’s a nice person”. I mean she is truly a special, caring, honest, dedicated, loving, nice person.
Throughout my entire life, people have been telling me how great my mom is. I always knew they were right, but I never knew just how great, until I looked back at my childhood through the eyes of an adult.
The way I see it, my mom’s life goal has been to give my brothers and me a strong foundation of love, and memories that we carry with us forever. She taught us to dream big and to reach beyond what is assumed to be possible.
And we have.
My younger brother Craig is a successful entrepreneur down in Charlotte, North Carolina. My older brother Scott is certainly living his dream, building NASCAR racecars not far from Craig. My wife Annmarie and I own our own residential architecture firm that is quickly growing beyond what we ever imagined it could be.
My brothers and I are each successful because my mom (and dad) taught us to follow our passions, to do what we love and above all else, to be nice people.
I think the greatest legacy one can leave is to raise children who contribute to society in a productive way, who are caring, sensitive people and who, at their core, are nice people. My mom has done that.
My brothers and I are very proud of my mom and I’m sure that my dad too is very proud. But I am most certain that my Nana who is here with us today and my Pop Pop, who I’m sure is smiling today as he looks down upon us, are very, very proud… because they raised my Mom, and she is a nice person.
I want to thank you Mom for all you have done… for all you have sacrificed, for us. I know that retirement will be more than you ever imagined. You deserve time for you. Time to stop, and rest, and enjoy your life. To do the things you have always wanted to do. To reach beyond what you assume to be impossible.
My prayer for you is that you dream big and that you enjoy every day of your life.
I am very proud of you Mom… and I love you very, very much.